Men who are dating the first time may ignore subtle signs from girls who like them. An old joke says, "It is easier to learn rocket science than to understand a woman's thinking!" Some women play hard to get to see how much effort you are willing to commit to having them in your life. Many men face the dilemma of either chasing their dream women or let them go. When dating, men are expected to understand the vital signs of girls who want to be pursued.
It is easier for a woman to show her interest than vice-versa. A woman always wants to be chased by the guy who captures her interest. When a man wants to chase his dream girl, he has two options: either come out strongly, with the risk that she might think that you are a creep or come at her gently, and then she might think you lack sufficient effort.
Is She Interested in Me?
Men find it difficult to flirt with women they like for the fear of rejection. On the other hand, a man needs to take his time to understand what the flirting for a woman means. Psychology has taught men to be watchful of the signs from women who have shown an interest in them. Here are a few tips to assist you on how to tell if she wants you to chase her.
1. She always stays close to you
One of the signs she wants to be chased is finding a reason to stay close to you. A woman uses proximity to signal a guy he is interested in dating. You will be bumping into her in the most unexpected places, such as your favorite coffee shop.
A woman who is intrigued by you can go the extra mile to create the accident bump just to be close to you, even in places with plenty of room. It might appear creepy, but it is your golden sign to chase her. A woman who is always lingering close to you has a crush on you and she constantly wishes you to make a move on her.
2. She accepts your invitations
Women rarely find or create time to hang out with guys they do not like. It is still normal for a woman to reschedule the date due to their commitments. Therefore, unless and until she starts creating unreasonable excuses for not honoring your invitations, or spending time with you, you are clear to chase her.
When a girl is attracted to you and she wants you to continue chasing her, she will find ways of accepting your invitations even if it compels her to reschedule her other commitments.
3. She dresses well when you hang out
An easy way to tell if she wants you to chase her is when you notice that she always dresses well when you are hanging out. You will know it if you catch her wearing ordinary clothes when she is not meeting you.
It does not mean she will change her wardrobe for you, but the difference is observable. She dresses up because she desires to capture your attention. She is dressing for you because she wishes to spin your head until you see the princess in her. She expects you to chase her like a famished dog!
4. She gets upset when you are talking with other girls
No girl wants to share a guy she loves with another lady. You might not be an item yet, but to her, you are her man! Most women think that by exhibiting signs of jealousy drives a man to want them more. She will not want to hear stories about you hanging with other girls.
She will always want to assert her territory in the presence of other girls. She will even be clingy with you around girls. From a guy's perspective, it shows he is wanted or even needed by this lady. It makes them want to do more to have her in his life.
5. She cares about your feelings
A girl who is interested in having you as her boyfriend will be careful not to hurt your feelings. When she wants you to chase, she may pretend to be uninterested but she will be cautious enough not to piss you off. She is apologizing even when it is unnecessary.
One of the indirect signs she wants to be chased is when she keeps saying sorry because of her perceived mistakes and she gives deep explanations for her actions. She cherishes you and she would not want avoidable circumstances to create a rift between the two of you.
6. She shares personal information
She shares pieces of information that are rarely shared with anybody. It includes her past, her family, annoying habits, secrets, and even her plans. It means she trusts you and finds you worthy of being part of her life. She has faith in you as her potential boyfriend.
7. She makes quick communication
A positive sign for you to chase is when she responds to your messages relatively quickly. It could be a call, a text, or an email. When she is unable to respond immediately, she will leave a message such as "be right back" because it is usually rude not to communicate effectively. A girl who is not interested in a particular guy will either ignore his messages or take long to reply.
8. She offers meaningful conversation
She wants you to chase her if she gives you her peek into her life. She wishes to initiate the curiosity in you by showing you the other side of her life you may not be familiar with. She is not the type of girl who only discusses with you non-essential things like new shows on Netflix!
Make Your Move
If you see one or more of these green lights, make your move and pursue her. Ensure you read the scenario well to know if she only wants to begin a friendship, or she is looking for something more than just a company.