Did He Block You on Social Media? Here Are 6 Reasons Why

It's really easy to delete someone completely on social media; all it takes is a few clicks. It's a pretty rude move, but the real question is why a certain person blocked you in the first place? "He blocked me. What did I do?" This is one of the most perplexing questions when something like this happens. "Did he block me because he cares?" That's a far better question because someone actually put an effort into doing that. There must be a good reason for that. Yes, it can mean that he cares about you, but it doesn't have to be the case. Let's talk about the six possible reasons why he blocked you on social media.

1. He cares about you

This sounds contradictory, but there are plenty of facts that can prove it. Firstly, think about what you usually do when you are hurt and want to forget someone. It hurts you to see their photos and posts, so you try to avoid them as much as you can. That can be the reason why he has blocked you. Maybe he got angry at you because of something, and he tries not to see your photos or posts because it hurts him. This is really impulsive and impetuous, but people don't think so rationally when they're hurt. Try to think about all the possible things that might make him angry or speak with your mutual friends. Also, if you two have known each other for long, and he just disappears, you can even approach him and ask him what the problem is.

2. He got what he wanted from you and doesn't care to see you anymore

This can also be a reason why a guy blocks you. If you hooked up with a guy and he just vanished, he probably only wanted physical contact and nothing else. Don't feel bad if such a thing happens to you. You don't need a man like that, trust me. Just forget that he ever existed in your life, just like he blocked you on social media. Only ruthless and arrogant people can use people and discard them like they're nothing. He doesn't even deserve your attention. You should keep in mind that sometimes life gives us lemons to make us grow mentally and emotionally, so use this opportunity to think about yourself for a bit.

3. He is confused about his own emotions and is taking a break from you

Men are as emotional as women, although they usually don't want to admit it. When a burst of emotions happens to a guy, he literally doesn't know what to do, so it's easier for him to run away until he decides what to do. If he blocked you for this reason, be certain that he will unblock you soon and send you a message. If he really likes you, he won't be able to resist talking to you, even if it seems frightening to him. Let him calm down and wait for some time. Don't check your inbox every two minutes, though. You will lose much of your precious time. If he shows up again, great. If he doesn't, either he's too cowardly or he doesn't want any contact with you.

4. He is afraid of you, your actions, or your words

One of the most frequent reasons why a guy blocks you is this one, especially if you two don't know each other well. Women are physically weaker than men, that's a fact, but some women can have astonishingly strong energy. You are probably too much for him to handle, so he needs a break. Think about yourself. Are you a gregarious, self-confident woman who knows what she wants and always states her opinion out loud with no fear? Well, you might seem scary to your guy. Of course, I don't think that all men fear strong women, but some of them do. It's easier to control an agreeable woman. Don't chase him, but you can try to reach him somehow and ask you to openly tell you why he has blocked you. If he flees again, let him go. You don't need a man like that.

5. You offended him somehow

We all think differently, and, therefore, different things offend us. Some people are so easily offended that you literally feel like you're walking on a minefield while talking to them. Maybe he misunderstood you or something like that, and he now has a completely wrong and distorted view of your personality. Read your earlier messages and watch for any clue. If you can find anything that might have offended him, you should reach him somehow and apologize. It's best if you talk in person. Tell him that it's not important what you said but your intention. Don't let a potentially beautiful relationship end before it even begins because of a trivial misunderstanding.

6. He doesn't know how to reject you

It's always easier just to disappear, rather than having an uncomfortable and awkward conversation. Guys usually don't know how to reject a girl, so they end up acting like this. Don't condemn him, even if he cowardly escaped and left you wondering what actually happened. Trust me, his conscience is eating him alive right now. Blocking you just to avoid rejecting you can show you a lot about his personality. He is not the one you are able to trust, so if this is the true reason why he blocked you, just focus on finding a new man.

Summary

Why does a guy block you out of nowhere? These are the six most accurate answers to this question. Whatever happens, don't try to justify his actions, and don't forget your worth. Things like this can lower your self-confidence, but you are not the true reason why he blocked you. His insecurities are. Just try to find a better man who will respect you and don't think much about it.

Ana Djurovic
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Hello, my name is Ana Djurovic, and I am a writer interested in various kinds of fields, such as beauty, fitness, art and traveling. I am very curious and always in need to expand my knowledge. I enjoy writing because it's something I can fully invest myself in. I think sharing our stories and experiences is what brings us together.

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