I am sure the thought of texting your crush sends shivers down your spine. After all, he or she is your crush. Your dream person. You want to put your best foot forward when approaching them. You want to feel the best. You want them to accept you as a friend and eventually get closer. However, sending a text can make you feel anxious and you could end up messing up real bad.
In this article, we will give you a few messages to send to your crush that will keep their interest for the longest time.
"You look really nice in your recent post."
We are in the age of social media. Everybody is fishing for compliments and your crush is no different. For that reason, telling your crush that they look nice in their posts might compel them to reply to you. Not to mention, you will make someone feel good for a while.
"Your outfit looks nice!"
Compliment your crush on their outfit in a picture they shared on social media. People dress up because they want attention. Nevertheless, there is no harm in telling someone that his or her outfit looks nice. Besides, they will keep in mind that you noticed their outfit and dress up nice next time you both meet.
"Did you hear the new song from (Insert the current popping artist's name)?"
Music unites us, which makes a cool song recommendation a great conversation starter. From there, you can lead the conversation in any direction you want. You can show your crush a little more about you, which will help you strengthen the relationship. You know what they say; when looks don't work, a good taste in music does. Trust me, people nowadays are more into good taste than money and looks.
"You make me smile."
Does it not make you happy when someone tells you that you make them happy or that you make them smile? If someone tells me that, it makes my day. There is no better compliment than this. Your crush will feel happy and they might compliment you in return, because they will view you as a nice person who wants to make people happy.
"You never text first. I cannot tell if you hate me or if you are playing hard to get."
You know that confidence is the key when talking to your crush. It is the only thing that will help you get ahead. If you know your crush well, ask if they like you or not. This one risky text will set your soul free. The guessing game will be over.
"Is it Saturday yet?"
Asking your crush out is not bad at all. In fact, you can send clear signals about your interest in taking the relationship further. This simple text is a subtle version of asking someone out. And I am pretty sure it will bring a smile to their face.
"You missing me?"
This fun text will get them blushing. When it comes to your crush, keep things cool and cute. This way, your crush will like you more and your relationship will stay light-hearted.
"Hey, you need to stop sending me mixed signals and start sending me some memes instead."
Sending mixed signals is not a good thing. However, if you want to stay on top of your crush's mind, you can outright ask him or her to stop with the mixed signals. Moreover, sharing memes can be a lot of fun.
"I don't remember the last time when we spoke, and I think we need to change that!"
This text will directly tell your crush that you miss them. And honestly, there is no harm in it. However, if your crush feels awkward, tell them you miss him or her as a friend. However, not covering up is not bad either.
"You have been running through my head all day."
You need to make your crush feel special. They need to feel like you have a crush on them. Sometimes you need to be subtle, but some days you just have to tell them. However, this will not give it all away for you. You can always cover it with "You know, friends miss friends too" ;)
"Are you comfortable with girls making the first move or should I just go for it?"
I am sure this text message will get your crush blushing like anything. Alternatively, he might just cringe hard. However, he will reply to you for sure. Guys love flirty messages, even if sometimes they also play hard to get.
"I have been trying to fall asleep for hours. I just can't get you off my mind."
Everybody is vulnerable at night, even your crush. Sending a late-night text is somewhat risky, but getting closer to your crush is worth the risk.